My favorite brother because he’s my ONLY brother, “Bernie”, celebrates his birthday today and I just wanted to put it out there that I’m glad he’s another year older. He’s come out and visited us in California a couple times this year, but we all know it’s pretty difficult to have relationships with people from afar. He’s really such a softie when it comes to Evie. She loves her “Tito Boy” and I hope they can always have their silly connections. Time will tell, I guess.
The month of October started off really testing myself on the mountains of the Lost Coast trail, and ended up watching my daughter really test herself on her longest hike to date (4.5 miles) on Angel Island and also climbing the large boulders of Yosemite’s Mirror Lake Trail. Of course I am a proud mama practically all the time, but something about her taking on these hikes makes me really glow. There’s a lot that I’ve learned in my life through being out in nature, and I don’t think I understood it’s impact until later in life. My parents taught me a lot of self-sufficiency being out fishing or camping. I would come back from a a day spent catching on the river and wanting to immediately go out to the garden in the back to dig up some worms to bring back to the river the next weekend and […]
Happy, happy birthday to my husband, Peabe. I’m not as good as him when writing about our relationship, which is kinda the opposite from having this blog I guess. Some things I just keep closer to my heart, for sure. Just because I don’t mention him too much on here or my social channels, doesn’t mean that he doesn’t mean that he is less important, less admired, or less appreciated. We love him very much.
Back when we were deciding where to move to when exiting Chicago, San Diego was actually my first choice. I knew I wanted to be in California, and I knew that I had a lot of family there for when I got homesick. As much time as we’ve spent in Los Angeles, or even Anaheim, I had not gone back to visit San Diego since first moving out to the Bay Area about 8 years ago. I have been wanting to go back for the past 4 years and introduce everyone to Evie, especially to my Auntie out there who always took care of my siblings and I when we came to visit on family vacations. We’ve talked about spending the day at Legoland, or taking her to visit the pandas at San Diego Zoo. It was finally time to stop talking about it and make a trip there. To […]
When our friend, Jon, told us that there was a premier for his new movie in Los Angeles, we jumped at the opportunity to be there with him. He’s one of my husband’s oldest friends, my old roommate here in Oakland, one of our best men at our wedding, my wii-bowling nemesis, the official officiant for my wedding, and one of the most talented filmmaker and photographer I know. He left us out in Oakland one day to do some filming for a documentary in North Carolina and told us he would be back in a month or two. He never returned. As much as we missed him, we knew how important this was and we grew attached to the characters when he would talk about them. It was a labor of love, filming over the span of six years, and anyone would be able to see the heart and soul […]
August ended up being a pretty busy month for having visitors around. Maybe it’s just a natural reaction to the fall season when we all need to get that one last vacation in. Having just gone on vacation last month, and having some travel plans coming up, it’s nice to take some time to just stay home. Luckily for us, staying around the Bay always feels like a pseudo vacation when we have company. I think in the matter of one month we had about 8 visitors! Some have never been here, some used to live here, and some haven’t been here to visit in a couple years. Whichever the case, I was glad to have all of them around to catch up with. Whenever a visitor comes around, we try to take them out to some of our favorite places to eat or drink, so I wanted to share […]
Last year I had told myself on my birthday that I was going to do the California “Lost Coast” Trail as a birthday challenge for myself. My birthday was in October, and I am not that far from the next birthday now. Life gets busy, I can start to loose a little focus, and sometimes those goals get a little further during the course that time. The Lost Coast Trail is actually where the people in charge of building California’s famous Highway 1 actually decided not to build. Where the Highway known for its beautiful cliffside and coastlines, decided… “meh… this area looks a little too rough for roads”. Where you actually have to shuttle a couple hours, or have two cars so that you can get from the start and the end of the trail. It’s a couple days long and can take you on some challenging terrain… and […]
The very first memory of my life was picking flowers in an open field as a gift for family. After discussing the details with my mom, I came to find out that the memory took place on my uncle’s land on a trip to the Philippines. I was two and a half years old, but the memory was so clear to me. As an adult, I know childhood memories don’t normally go back so early. A young mind usually does a memory dump around the age of four so most people don’t remember much before that. Maybe it is because we were able to time stamp that memory to a short three week span in my life that was spent doing something out of the ordinary, or maybe it was because that snippet of my life made such an impression on me. My parents both had emigrated from the Philippines in the ’70s. They created a family of […]
With all the summertime adventuring, I wanted to also give a special day for Evie’s older sibling, Toaster. He’s our “special” child who sometimes doesn’t get the spotlight so every now and then we try to plan some time just for him. I’ve always been a dog person, partially because I am so allergic to cats, but also because they are such loyal and lovable pets. My first childhood dog was kept in a cage in the basement and played with us outside in the yard, but was never allowed to freely roam the house or be completely integrated into our lives. Super sad, I know. I knew when we adopted him that we wanted to try to take Toaster with us everywhere, but sometimes he’s not allowed or it becomes a cost issue. Traveling with a dog has become easier with airlines, but some of them do not […]
Now looking back to blog about it, it seems like we were out in Washington for waaaay longer than we actually were. From family time at my cousin’s wedding to camping in the beautiful Mount Rainier National Park, maybe I was a little too much from the kids to do a couple more days with me in Olympic National Park. I mean, I really wanted to take advantage of being out there with so many beautiful parks, but I could already tell it was starting to wear on the kids. (Which in turn, starts wearing down all the adults too, so I guess the joke is on me). From Mount Rainier, we packed back into the car and drove about 4 hours to another gorgeous park in Washington. Olympic is actually pretty special when it comes to the National Parks as it has a very diverse ecology. From coastline to […]