My retired parents spend about half the year in my childhood neighborhood in Illinois, and the other half of the year all the way out in the Philippines. Neither place is anywhere by my daughter in Oakland. My husband and I both had grandparents raising us in our childhood, and we sometimes worry that my daughter doesn’t have enough of that same quality time. We recently took a trip with them to Norway, and spent some time in Oslo together. The idea of trying to experience a new city is a little daunting because we would be in a larger group, and at different stages of life’s interests and general fitness. I can see the benefit and prefer to travel in small groups when necessary, but I knew some adjustments would need to be made to enjoy our time together and see all that we wanted to see. As we […]
Dearest family and friends; I have been processing my thoughts around this election and current state of the country… I am not going to tell you who and what you should vote for, as I know from the results there are more than half of the country (including some of my own family and friends) remained complacent or had been part of a silent majority. I am not here to educate you, I am not here to represent some marginalized group, and I am not here to judge you on your decision. I only ask that you, as my circle, hear me out. In return, I promise now that if you need someone to hear you out, you should know I am hear for ya. This election has not tested my friendships, as I know we all have a right to our opinion. This president doesn’t scare me, but the […]
My favorite brother because he’s my ONLY brother, “Bernie”, celebrates his birthday today and I just wanted to put it out there that I’m glad he’s another year older. He’s come out and visited us in California a couple times this year, but we all know it’s pretty difficult to have relationships with people from afar. He’s really such a softie when it comes to Evie. She loves her “Tito Boy” and I hope they can always have their silly connections. Time will tell, I guess.
I am besides myself in grief about the election, and I know I am not alone. We spent the time before leaving the states to fill in our vote-by-mail cards and send them off, knowing that we would be away. I wasn’t sold on Hillary, but I didn’t want Trump to win, so I voted for her. I knew it was going to get really close. I have never been overly political, especially on social media, but had shared some things because of this election. What Trump stands for is hate. How could I sit back and watch as his world wants to turn my friends and family into stereotypes and generalizations… just another black man getting killed by police, just another illegal immigrant hispanic, just another muslim terrorist… just another woman to be “grabbed by the pussy”. I am not in America to celebrate mediocrity and money, as I […]
The month of October started off really testing myself on the mountains of the Lost Coast trail, and ended up watching my daughter really test herself on her longest hike to date (4.5 miles) on Angel Island and also climbing the large boulders of Yosemite’s Mirror Lake Trail. Of course I am a proud mama practically all the time, but something about her taking on these hikes makes me really glow. There’s a lot that I’ve learned in my life through being out in nature, and I don’t think I understood it’s impact until later in life. My parents taught me a lot of self-sufficiency being out fishing or camping. I would come back from a a day spent catching on the river and wanting to immediately go out to the garden in the back to dig up some worms to bring back to the river the next weekend and […]
If you haven’t guessed already from my Instagram account, I am in taking a little fall trip out to Scandinavia. We will be in 4 different countries: Norway, Denmark, Sweden, and Finland. The trip is mostly for my family (my husband, daughter, and I), but my parents will be joining us to Norway as they had never been before. We are traveling by plane, car, train, and cruise boat to 6 different cities, so planning took some time and coordination. I have been talking to some friends about it recently who have been pretty shocked to hear the deals that we’ve found and the tips to travel when organizing for this vacation. We’ve tried to do the bulk of the prep work early on, so I don’t remember all of details, but I can share with you what I thought were key things to my planning. FINDING A LOCATION So we knew […]
Happy, happy birthday to my husband, Peabe. I’m not as good as him when writing about our relationship, which is kinda the opposite from having this blog I guess. Some things I just keep closer to my heart, for sure. Just because I don’t mention him too much on here or my social channels, doesn’t mean that he doesn’t mean that he is less important, less admired, or less appreciated. We love him very much.
Ever since living here in California, I had only visited Yosemite in the springtime. There’s something so fresh and clean about springtime there, with the falls gushing with water, crisp cold air, and sometimes a bit of snow on the ground. We usually book a yurt with Yosemite Lakes Campground, just outside the park, so we’ve been a little spoiled by heated structures to relax in white we are there. Going in the off-season also offers us a pretty open park, away from crowds and traffic, where we can really feel like we’ve escaped. This year, the campground was pretty booked and had availability in October. With all the other things we had planned this month, it was a little inconvenient, but we booked it anyway and had hoped we could make it work. The group of friends we go with changes slightly most years, and this time was no […]
Last weekend, we were fortunate enough to get another yearly tradition squeezed into our busy month, a trip to Yosemite. I know I’ve been spending so much time camping in October, but this trip was different. After two weekends of backpacking, and as the park was going to have the first winter storm of the season, I was happy to glamp it up with a yurt. Yurts are canvas structures; imagine a round cabin but instead of walls like we would normally see on cabins, its wrapped in canvas. Not only are we generally excited to spend a weekend in a yurt, but we are able to spend it at one of my favorite National Parks. It still seems a little unreal that I am so close to it now, about 3-4 hours away. A short drive from the hustle and bustle of the city is the amazing views and fresh air of […]
It was 5 years ago, when Evie was only 7 months old, that we took her on her first camping trip. We went to an island in the middle of the San Francisco Bay, called Angel Island. Of course I was worried. I didn’t know if she would cry all night or be fussy on hike to the campsite. I called the State Park ranger on duty to confirm emergency procedures if something should end up happening while we were there. I hadn’t even been to the island prior to the trip so I had no idea if they had boats docked overnight or even signal to reach anyone. She slept in the Bjorn carrier as we climbed Mount Livermore, the highest point on the island. We apparently took the hardest trail to the campsite, with baby and backpacks of camping supplies, and my husband and I were exhausted by […]